Author: Susanne

  • Elliott’s 5th Lego Birthday!

    Elliott’s 5th Lego Birthday!

    Elliott turned 5 on March 20–a phrase he has been telling EVERYONE he has met for the last 8 months or so: “Hello, my name is Elliott and I’m turning 5 on March 20th!” To which the person would almost always respond, “You’re 25?” To which I would jump in and correct, “He’s TURNING 5…” Hahaha! I think we’ve had that conversation at least 100 times with various strangers in various places!!

    He requested going to breakfast at Mimi’s (“I want to go to the breakfast place where we sat by the emergency exit and had apple sauce!”). We wrapped up a couple presents for him and Selah helped wrap hers. He got to open one first thing in the morning and then we hid Selah’s present and our other present for him in his car seat to find on the way to Mimi’s.

    Can you see the train Selah drew on his present? She and Elliott are sleeping in the back. I was so impressed! We made him his very own return address labels, personalized with his name and a picture of him at Lego Land!
    Elliott’s new favorite color is blue-ish green, with navy coming in at a close second. I had just found this shirt on the clearance rack At Gymboree for $2!! Win!!!! Perfect birthday shirt!!!

    That afternoon, special guests Grandma, Grandpa and Aunt Angela drove in! We packed them back up in the car and headed to Grampa & Nonna’s house for the Mauss family birthday celebration.

    Happy Birthday, dear Elliott!

    Now, for his actual birthday party…this is the party he’s been planning for well over a year. Last year I was thinking he would want to have a Lego birthday, but he approached me in January telling me he wanted to have an animal birthday party. When I suggested a Lego party he responded, “I would like to have an animal birthday this year and a Lego party next year when I turn 5.” What can I say…the child has my party-planning blood in him!!!! So the last time we were at Lego Land, I was sure to take lots of pictures of our boy in preparation for his 5th birthday party!

    One afternoon I showed him lots of pictures from various Lego parties and we talked through what exactly would bless him at his party. He has very strong opinions about what he wants! 🙂 One of the first things we did was design this shirt together. He told me exactly what he would like (a light blue shirt with a dark blue lego guy, but with a hat, and he wanted the lego guy to also have a light blue shirt). I designed the CUTEST little Lego guy with a hat, but Elliott didn’t like how the bill went to the side…so we ended up with this…which I tried to strongly urge him to go with the sideways hat instead, but he was insistent on this, because “the bill goes in front, not on the side.” I think it looks like a helmet 🙂 but he loves it! So…win!

    Elliott and the helmet Lego Guy!

    The next thing we did was make a zillion lego crayons out of all of our crayons for party favors.

    His favorites were the multi-colored ones, so we made sure that everyone got one of those, too.

    Next it was time to work on invitations. Oh my, these were too much fun to design and the kids had a blast making the outsides look like Legos. One of the things Elliott was insistent on was that the party colors were: blue-ish green (turquoise), light blue and dark blue. So everything from the invitations to the decorations were in those colors. We had a picture of Elliott with Emmett and Brian figured out how to make the background transparent and I put together this little ditty:

    Elliott punched out the dots with my circle punch and put foam stickers on them. Selah played around with the dots for a while and then helped attach them to the actual invitations :).

    Next up, we worked on painting this Lego Man together, and of course, the kids had to make sure he “worked”! And, as you can see, we decorated the doors to our craft room to look like Legos, along with our front door.

    I convinced Elliott to let me draw the hat “sideways” so it actually looked like a hat :). I sketched him out on a box that I had painted white, and Elliott painted (most of) him inside the lines I sketched.
    Next up, I printed off tons of pictures of him from Lego Land and put them on Lego brick backgrounds, and then the kids “built” Lego towers out of the pictures on the walls.

    Brian framed these two pictures of Elliott at Lego Land out of Legos!

    And how can you have a Lego Birthday party without Lego soap??

    We saved jars for a couple of months and made them into Lego Heads…

    I think they are adorable!

    I printed off the Happy Birthday Lego sign from here. I covered our t.v. and two boxes with Dollar Store tablecloths, then wrapped paper bowls with the tablecloth scraps and taped them onto the boxes. And thanks to the Blizzard that blew through on Elliott’s birthday party day (more on that in a minute!) I got the idea to cover up the picture that normally hangs on our mantle with the last tablecloth I had left and printed out the Elliott 5+ sign. Also, we used the scraps leftover from his birthday invitations to make the multi-blue colored Lego banner.

     

     

    And with that, our living room was ready to go!

    And THEN…a blizzard blew in on the morning of his birthday party!! On the third day of Spring!! And it was a bad one…we realized within a couple hours of waking up that no one should be on the roads. So a hundred text messages later, and we were able to move the party to the next afternoon. Elliott was pretty sad, but after agreeing to let him put together a practice Lego Man (the first craft activity of the party) he was in much better spirits :).

    And Aunt Angela makes everything better 🙂

    And THEN…he got to open his gifts from Grandma & Grandpa and Aunt Angela…..

    A sand box and sand toys! The kids had a BLAST playing in the sand box on our kitchen floor…while the snow and wind beat on our house outside!

    Which meant I had all day to keep thinking of new Lego ideas and finishing up the old ones I had had…it’s a good thing we didn’t have TWO snow days or this party would have been out of hand!!

    We got the favor bags all ready to go. I designed, printed, and cut out the Lego circles with my Silhouette and Elliott attached them to the bags with foam stickers. Each friend got a lanyard and Lego badge with their name on it, a laminated tag with their name, a Lego notebook, Lego crayons and a Lego coloring book that I put together.

     

    We set out the food and drinks. We looked through several different types of Lego cakes, and Elliott really wanted the kind with M&Ms on them, and he really wanted it to be blue. Brian is *highly* opposed to food coloring, so after doing a little research we picked these up at Whole Foods. They are made from vegetables so there is nothing artificial in there. I thought they worked out great and were a great alternative to food dye. The colors are not nearly as bright and bold as regular food coloring but they totally accomplished their purpose! These Lego Brick cakes were definitely challenging for me to make as I’m not super gifted in the baking arena and the frosting didn’t turn out as smooth as I had imagined it would 🙂 but Elliott loved them and that’s all that matters, right!! I also whipped up some Rice Krispie Lego Treats to have a gluten free option on hand.

    Elliott wanted a Lego man on his brick, and he picked a firefighter…in case the candles got out of hand, the fireman would be there to assist 🙂
    We wrapped juice boxes to look like Lego bricks (downloaded from here) and Elliott and Selah built the fork and napkin holders!

    And now for the actual PART-AY!!!!

    Guests arrived and Elliott handed them their Lego badges to wear. The first activity was creating your own Lego guy, which I cleverly re-named “DO YOU WANNA BUILD A LEGO GUY?” in honor of the Blizzard the day before. (Get it??? Sung to the tune of “Do you wanna build a snowman?”!!)

    We had yellow Lego guy cut outs (thank you, Silhouette!) with shirts, pants, hats, stickers, googly eyes, crayons and markers so the kids could decorate them. They didn’t put as much effort into them as I thought they might (note to self: most 5 year olds are not as into crafting as my son is!) and some finished as quickly as possible so they could play in the bin of Legos on the floor :). We also had several Lego coloring sheets set out as well.
    Here are some of the finished Lego guys sticking up out of their bags…cute!!!

    Next up was Pin the Head on the Lego Guy. This game is always such a hit!!! The kids each decorated their own Lego head and then took turns trying to pin it onto the headless Lego man. Everyone was cracking up!!

     

     

    Then we played Lego Bingo. I downloaded the Lego Bingo cards from someone else who had designed them, but we changed up a lot of them because, as Elliott puts it, a lot of them “don’t bless God.” It’s true. What is with the terrifying Lego pieces that are out there? Anyway, it was cute because we used pictures of Elliott at Lego Land and it made the game a lot more fun and personal.

    We used Legos for our markers and this game was also a big hit!

     

     

    Then we had a spoon race…which team can carry the Lego pieces on a spoon into the Lego head the fastest?

    And finally, Lego Creationary: each child builds something out of Legos and the other kids try to guess what it is! This was fun!!

    Then it was cake time!

    And I almost forgot on the day of, but thankfully Elliott reminded me! Presents!

    And everyone got their photo in the Lego man, of course!

    What a fun group of kiddos!!

     

     

    Our Big Man!!
    And of course Selah wanted a picture up there, too 🙂

    5th Lego Birthday Party SUCCESS!!

    And as if we hadn’t had enough fun, that night we went to Red Robin for his free birthday burger!

     

    Happy 5th Birthday, our beloved Elliott!!!

    (And in case you’re wondering…yes, he already has his parties planned out for the next 4 years!!!HA!!!!)

  • Christmas Countdown in Pictures

    Christmas Countdown in Pictures

    I’m taking a break from my normal long-windedness 🙂 and blogging this year’s Christmas through pictures! Enjoy!

    Get out the Christmas decorations and decorate your felt Christmas Tree!
    Go pick out our Christmas tree!
    Put up Christmas lights!
    Make Christmas gifts for our friends! (A project I envisioned doing for many more friends, but these were FAR more difficult and time-consuming than I had anticipated…so only two friends got gifts this year!)
    Build rocking horses together!
    Take out all of our Christmas and winter books!
    Journey to Bethlehem as a family! (“Breakfast in Bethlehem”…a breakfast/crafting/interactive living nativity put on by a local church! We all had SO much fun!!)
    Counting with Christmas Trees, Pom-pom sorting, Pipe Cleaner Straining…
    Zoo Lights!
    Stained Glass Nativities
    Snowman Pancakes!
    Elliott’s Christmas Program at Preschool
    Reindeer Cookies!
    The kids’ program at church, Nativity Stickers, and Christmas Magnet Pattern Blocks
    Gingerbread Men with the McCabes!
    Nativity Window Clings!
    The North Pole!!
    New pajama shirts (made by me because I couldn’t find any Christmas p.j.s that I like this year!!) and popcorn and a Christmas movie!
    Make baby Jesus some cookies and cupcakes…out of playdough!
    Christmas Eve…the kids each got to open one present (a new puzzle for each of them) and we all worked them together. Then church!
    Christmas Eve family shots!
    Christmas Day!!!
    Christmas with the family!
  • celebrating our won-dough-ful 3 year old!

    celebrating our won-dough-ful 3 year old!

    It’s incredibly hard to believe that our baby girl turned THREE this year!! Here are the highlights from her birthday and birthday party…

    She woke up with a room full of purple balloons…
    …and the first present to open of the day…a dress I personalized for her with the word, “three”!
    She got dressed and went downstairs for her next surprise…a huge 3 in purple balloons!!
    Grandma & Grandpa were in town, so we took Elliott to preschool together. Here she is outside of his preschool, in all of her birthday glory! She picked out this dress for her birthday and would have stayed in it day and night if I would have let her…
    Then we stopped at our favorite coffee place for a birthday hot cocoa…and the barista put a candle in her whipped cream and everyone sang “Happy Birthday” to her!!

    She went to gymnastics and then Grandma, Grandpa, Selah and I went to go pick out a cupcake from a bakery. For weeks I had been asking her what she wanted for her birthday, and her ONLY response was, “A cupcake.” I tried to tell her that I was already making cupcakes for her birthday party, but she could think of nothing else she wanted. The day before her birthday, she reminded me that she would like a cupcake for her birthday. I reminded her we would have one on her birthday party day a few days later. She looked at me as if I had not heard the 1 million times that she told me she wanted a cupcake for her birthday and almost burst into tears. So :). We decided to let her pick out a special cupcake for her actual birthday.

    After naptime, she got to go into the basement and see her special gift picked out and put up by her Daddy…he added a SWING to her beloved birthday present from last year–the gym in our basement.

    Needless to say, she LOVES it…(and her Grandpa, too!!)

     

    We went to Red Robin for dinner (her choice) where, of course, they sang her Happy Birthday and she buried herself into me as she normally does when put on the spot!
    But she definitely enjoyed her ice cream when the singing people went away :).
    Us!
    And then she had her long-awaited cupcake at home afterwards!!

    HER BIRTHDAY PARTY:

    Selah is our super tactile child. She LOVES playing in rice and sand and squishing play dough between her fingers. So we decided to party hard for her 3rd with play dough, her favorite friends, and her grandparents.

    Our most wonderful Selah Bean is turning three!

    She’s our silly, hilarious, playful one (as you know),

    To you, her favorites, she asks: “Will you celebrate with me?!”

    Join us for a party with games and PLAY DOUGH!!

    We decorated our craft room with purple!
    Made favors for our friends!
    Personalized an apron for every kid!
    Decorated cupcakes with sprinkles!
    And waited patiently for our friends to arrive!

     

    Our friends arrived and put on their aprons!
    Here’s everyone ready to create with play dough!
    Selah was overjoyed to have play dough in her hands and her favorite girlfriends by her side!
    Happy birthday girl!

    The first challenge was to create a cupcake that Selah would like to eat for her birthday.

    Elliott’s cupcake creations!
    Quinn’s delicious goodies!
    Charlotte’s yummy looking cupcakes!
    Selah’s dough-light-ful birthday cupcake!
    Ava’s cupcakes definitely took the cake 🙂

    The next challenge was to create a playdough version of Selah. Here’s what we got:

    Pretty good!!
    And Elliott’s playdough Selah is very creative!
    The dearest friends!!!!

    The kids played with play dough for a little while longer until it was time for cake!

    My darling girl and her cupcakes with sprinkles!
    Happy Birthday to you!
    Selah and her Nonna, who usually always wears purple, to Selah’s delight!!
    She opened some super fun and thoughtful presents from friends and family!
    Happy Birthday, our dear Selah Bean!!!

    If you’ve made it this far :), here are some extra special birthday bonuses…

    Here she is in the “three” dress that I made for her…

    And THIS is a picture of ME when I turned 3, alongside of Selah on her birthday. My mom made this sweet Care Bear for me for my third birthday, and here is Selah with it as well!!

    Resemblance?

    Happy Birthday, our darling won-dough-ful Selah!!!

  • Selah is 3!

    Selah is 3!

    Our darling little girl is growing up so quickly before our eyes, and she brings an exceeding amount of joy into our home every day. Selah lives life as if it were a musical–and we adore it!! She literally sings her way through life…she sings throughout the day, sings herself to sleep, and wakes up with a new song on her tongue every morning.

    Here’s a video of one of her latest songs:

     

    It is so easy to see her mother’s heart burst out of her every move…she is constantly so eager to take care of everyone around her and serve every chance she gets.

    We had the joy of taking care of my niece a few days a week at the beginning of the year, and Selah (and Elliott) were on cloud 9 to have her in our home. Here is Selah feeding her a bottle…
    …and reading her a book, in sunglasses of course!

    And that heart does not exclude her babies and stuffed animals! It is not rare for us all to be playing together and for Selah to jump up in the middle of our playtime and exclaim, “I hear my baby crying upstairs! I’ll go get her and bring her down!” She is the epitome of sweet and kind and loving. And although she has definitely learned how to push her brother’s buttons this year :), most of what comes out of her heart is genuine love.

    A few months ago, I overheard this conversation:

    Selah, as she takes Elliott’s pencil and sits down: “Elliott, I need to use your pencil.”

    Elliott: “But Selah, that’s MY pencil.”

    Selah, in the sweetest, most genuinely convincing voice: “Yes, I’m SHARING it with you!”

    Elliott: “Oh! Thank you, Selah! Thank you for sharing it with me!”

    Selah: “You’re welcome, Elliott!”

    It’s hard to articulate the depths of her heart, but this conversation was so typical of her…she was truly not manipulating him, but she just genuinely believes that she was giving Elliott a gift by letting HIM share with HER!

    As she approached her third birthday, any time it would come up in conversation and someone would ask her old she was turning, she would respond, “Three…THEN FOUR!!” I think she is determined to catch up to her big brother! 🙂

    She continues to be our amazing gymnast.

    Strong arms on the bars at almost 2 1/2!

    She is truly talented and it is such a joy to watch her doing something she loves. We did the “Mommy and me” gymnastics class last year, and a couple of weeks before she turned 3, she started the 3-4 year olds class, which is a class without her Mama!! (Granted, I do sit right outside where she can see me and watch her through the window…baby steps for both of us!) I talked to her about it ahead of time, wondering how she would do without me (and let’s be real–how I would do without her!!!) and she said she was excited to do it. The morning of her first class, however, as we were getting her into her leotard, she said to me with a voice that quivered more with each word: “Mom? I was just thinking that I actually want you to come into my class with me…” and then she erupted in tears. My heart broke and I held her as she sobbed…Elliott and I comforted her and prayed with her and he gave her advice on what it is like to go into a class without me. It was precious. Sure enough, when I walked her into her class a couple hours later, she let go of my hand and waved goodbye to me with no problem. It has been so incredibly fun to watch her thrive!!

    The first few moments of her first class all by herself! (She’s second from the front in the pink)
    Climbing the rope!
    Peeking through the window at Elliott who got to be there for her very first class to cheer her on!!
    And a celebratory hot chocolate afterwards because–come on! That was a big deal!!!! Cheers to big girl gymnastics!!

    She got her first haircut this year and mastered potty training.

    She is wild and messy and silly and free and creative and and hilarious and we adore every part of how God created our little girl!!! Enjoy a snapshot of her year below!

    Selah takes artistic license when it comes to doing anything…eating dinner, crafting, writing her name…

    One night while out to eat as a family, I looked over and saw Selah doing push ups like this! Bahaha!! (I know–bad Mom for taking a picture…I took a picture and then reminded her of what good table manners are…)
    Most kids sit while crafting, but not this girl. She crafts while balancing on one foot.
    Oh look, here she is sitting to craft…but with nothing but her brother’s backpack on. She can’t do anything the “normal” way!!
    She LOVES puzzles as much as her big brother! At 27 months, she could complete this 48 piece jigsaw puzzle all by herself.
    She loves to build and create at Home Depot!
    “Look, Mom! It’s a monkey sitting in a high chair!” She is a budding artist who draws extremely hilarious and creative pictures!!
    “Look, Mom! It’s a snowman walking!”
    I found her like this at the chiropractor one day. The chiropractor is one of her favorite places to go :). (Yes, yes…she takes after me!!)
    Did I mention she is messy?!!!
    At Chick-fil-a…making goofy Chick-fil-a saucy faces at herself in my phone…
    Thanks to Aunt Melanie, we figured out how to FINALLY get her hair into pig tails!! She was about 2 1/2 at the time… We continue to hope and pray that she GROWS SOME MORE HAIR!!! 🙂

    Selah continues to have a love-hate relationship with animals of all kinds. She screams in absolute horror if our friends’ cat even takes a step into a room that she is in, but then she can be in a pen filled with Alpacas and literally chase after them yelling, “Here, alpaca! Here, alpaca!”

    Chasing down Alpacas, trying to feed them vegetables…
    And here she is feeding a bird at the zoo. I love that face!!!
    She actually looks like she’s really enjoying being in the mouth of this Alligator!
    She loves dressing to match me!!
    Goofy face!
    She ADORES her big brother and his friends!
    They truly are BFFS…
    She still loves to dress up in all varieties of clothes…
    Probably one of my favorite things about Selah is how FREE she is. She doesn’t have a care in the world. She sleeps like this most of the time…hands above her head, baby by her side…in total peace.
    And yes, I know…we are the only people on the planet who still have a monitor for their (now) 3 year old…but come on…I would have missed all of these precious sleeping moments if we didn’t have one!!!!!
    My darling girl!!
    Here I am at 2 as well. I was probably an early 2 and Selah is close to 3 in this picture, but I think we look pretty similar!!
    Welcome to age 3, my love!!!! I cannot wait to see how you change and grow in the coming year!!!!
  • Pre-K Man!

    Pre-K Man!

    Our big 4 year old started Pre-K this month! He is going to a very small little preschool that we just love so far. The director is wonderful, the teachers are incredibly loving and…his good buddy Malachi is in his class!! How could it get any better? 🙂 This preschool as the option of letting the kids stay an extra 45 minutes afterwards to eat lunch. I was not even thinking about that as an option but when Elliott found out about it he begged me to let him stay. So…alas…I let him stay for lunch on the first day (sniff, sniff…) And as you can see below, that is one of his top three favorite things about school!

    Some stats:

    Age: Almost 4 1/2

    Height: 44 1/2 inches

    Shoe size: 12

    Clothing size: 5T and 6

    Loves: CRAFTING. Oh my, how this child loves to craft. He could literally sit and craft all day (and often does!) He loves to write letters to people and make cards and pictures for others. He also still LOVES to read and build.

    When he grows up he wants to be: “A space man and a firefighter.”

    Favorite part of Pre-K so far: “Eating snack and eating lunch.” When I asked if there was anything else he said, “I have one more thing…that Brooklyn is there!” and then he got a huge smile on his face, turned beet red, and ran away… haha!! 🙂

    Happy to be going to school again!
    These two…
    bbb
    The mandatory goofy picture
    We made these jars together and picked flowers for his teachers…
    Walking into school with the cards he made for his teachers, his backpack, and his lunchbox.
    Malachi!

    Meanwhile, back at the ranch…us girls went and got coffee and hot chocolate at our favorite little local coffee shop…and then went to the park, of course!

    I love my girl!
    This was her requested activity during Elliott’s first day!

    We went home, ate lunch, and raced back to pick up Elliott, whom we missed so much!

    Selah joining the big kids for the last part of lunch on the first day…

    All in all, it was a great first day and a successful first week of school!

  • Musings from a 2 year old

    Musings from a 2 year old

    I often tell Brian that I wish I could bottle Selah up to remember her like this forever…Two is seriously my favorite age and she is so articulate and hilarious that she keeps me laughing all day long. Oh, the STORIES that she comes up with…they are incredible. This girl’s imagination is VIVID and she always has a story to tell about everything.

    She also, however, has some stage fright. 🙂 So anytime I pull out my phone to take her picture or record her, she stops acting like her normal self but then wants to see what I’ve recorded! I have been trying so hard to get her on video without her knowing because I want to capture the essence of HER…and, folks, I did it :). She had been talking to me already for several minutes and I somehow casually placed my phone on my leg and pushed record without her knowing…until the end, of course. This video is CLASSIC Selah…first of all, she’s wearing her shirt backwards because when she dresses herself in the mornings she usually takes some artistic license with how her clothes should be worn. Today, her shirt was backwards and it was very intentional. (You all just wait for that to become a trend!) And her backwards shirt is covered in watermelon juice because…because she’s the second child :). Her hair’s a disaster because it’s after her nap and well, seriously…this is classic Selah. Feel free to watch below to catch a glimpse of our imaginative little girl…and bonus points if you can catch everything she’s saying!

     

     

     

  • Elliott’s Last Day of Preschool

    Elliott’s Last Day of Preschool

    Well, it happened to be SNOWING in MAY on the day of Elliott’s very last day of preschool (shout out to Colorado!). So, if you can get past the terrible picture quality of the last day {indoor} photos taken with my phone, you can see the changes in our big man and his little sister in just one school year…

    So grown up!!

     

  • Potty Training Selah Style

    Potty Training Selah Style

    I know this is the weirdest thing on the planet to blog about but Selah makes everything SO hilarious that I want to document this little milestone. AND, I’m certain she will thank me in 20 years…right?!! 🙂

    Thanks to Selah, potty training her was an experience that had me in stitches throughout the entire process. I’m a big fan of WAITING to potty train, mostly because…here’s a little secret about me: I love diapers. And I mean, LOVE them. I think they are incredibly convenient and they just truly don’t bother me. Selah had been showing signs of being ready to potty training since long before she was 2 (in fact, a few days before her 2nd birthday she asked if she could sit on the potty and she got out both her pee and her poop!) So I thought I would have a self-trainer on my hands. Well, she didn’t self train but just picked and chose the days and times that she wanted to use the potty. I tried VERY half-heartedly a couple of times to actual train her, but one puddle on the floor was enough to send me back to buying stock in diapers. Sure enough, around 2 1/2, she started using the potty very regularly (on her terms). One evening during dinner Elliott went to the bathroom and then she jumped out of her seat and said, “Can I go potty?!” I said, “Be my guest…” and so she went upstairs to the available potty by herself, took off her diaper by herself, and went to the bathroom. It was that day that I realized I needed to just bite the bullet and train the girl.

    I set up a little incentive…7 purple papers that led to a baby doll stroller which she really wanted.

    7 purple squares=the glory of the stroller

    Every time she went pee she got to put a little sticker in the pee square and every time she went poop she got to put a sticker in the poop square. Like I said, she was really good at going when she wanted to, but we had to get her going all the time. So if she went a full day without an accident she got to glue her paper up on a purple square.

    Like the visuals? 🙂 I let her cut them out herself!

    When all the squares were filled up she got to go pick out a stroller!

    Here was thing about her going potty. Somehow, she would manage to not only get pee in the potty, but also all over the floor of the entire bathroom, the seat, and the back of the toilet. I’ve never seen anything like it, and it would make me laugh so hard (Brian didn’t quite feel the same way, HA!!). I mean, seriously though…that requires talent! How is that even possible?!!

    It took me a few days of that to realize that as soon as she would start to go pee, she would want to watch it come out so she would stand up mid-stream…hence, the pee flood.

    Speaking of which, every time she would go to sit on the potty she would beg me to let her pee standing up (like her big brother). And when I would tell her, “no…” and that “ladies sit to go to the bathroom”, she would break down into a puddle of tears.

    So, after teaching her to remain seated for the entire performance (have you ever seen that sign in a public restroom?) I went in one day to find ALL of the pee…INSIDE the toilet! THAT was a big day! I began to praise her and she enthusiastically interjected: “I got pee on the floor and the seat but I just wiped it all up!” She has left the potty SPOTLESS ever since that day.

    She has preferred (and been much more successful) going to the bathroom alone, which is why I haven’t been in there to monitor the pee antics.

    After two successful days of no accidents, I pulled out a little surprise that I had been saving for her…a purple princess dress for our purple-loving princess!!

    Here are a few quotes that kept me laughing throughout the entire process:

    *After pooping one day, she stuck her head in the potty, examining her poops, and said: “OH!! One is a turtle and one is a monkey climbing up a tree!”

    *Another poop experience: One of her poops was very tiny and round. She looked in and said, “OH!! A blueberry!! I want a blueberry!! Can I eat a blueberry??”

    *Calling to me from the bathroom: “Mommy! The poops got ON the potty!!” I went into the bathroom to find her standing there studying the toilet and the poop that was smeared on the seat. There was also, incidentally, NO poop actually in the potty. I said, “Hmmm, how did you get poops ON the potty, but not IN the potty? Where are the poops??” Selah, wrinkled her eyebrows, peered into the toilet and said with utmost compassion, “Them prolly (probably) asleep in the hay…” (I then proceeded to wipe her and found said poops hanging out of her bottom…mystery solved!)

    *One day after pooping she (again, studying her poop) says, “Oooooh!! A carrot!!” “Well, actually that’s a red pepper,” I replied. She responds, “Oooooh!! A red pepper!! Why a red pepper??? {pause, as she proceeds to answer her own question} That’s because the poops are hungy (hungry) so they eat the red pepper.”

    *”Look!! That’s a silly poop!” In a sing-song voice she continues, “It goes, ‘I can DANCE! I can DANCE!!! I can DAAANCE!!!’ That’s silly…silly poop that can dance!!”

    We also had several incidents in public, like the time I was so focused on making sure her hands were washed that I forgot to remind her to pull up her panties. So she waddled out of the public bathroom in her dress with her underwear around her cowgirl boots! It’s like the Selah version of tucking your skirt into your underwear :). She just somehow never ceased to make potty training funny!!

    So…several pee floods, many, many poop stories, and tons of laughs later, we had a potty trained little girl!

    She got really tired of putting stickers up after the first two days so she just would end up putting one on each section at the end of the day if she had had no accidents.

    We all ventured to the store so she could pick out her stroller…

    She held it and wouldn’t let it go!
    She was silent on the way home, just staring at her stroller like this!
    She and Elliott immediately took it out of the packaging and worked together to get it set up and get some babies in there asap!
    And then she informed me that both the babies needed to go to sleep… 🙂
    Ahh, and I forgot to mention that Brian was SO pleased with how quickly and how well she learned to use the big girl potty that he broke down and picked out her very first Lego set for her, too. This girl LOVES Legos because her big brother loves Legos…its super special that now she has her very own little set to play with. Here they are putting together her new little Lego car!

    We are so proud of our little girl!!

  • Elliott is FOUR!!

    Elliott is FOUR!!

    Towards the beginning of January, Elliott suddenly said to me, “Mommy, I would like an animal birthday party.” I hadn’t talked to him about a party theme, but I will confess that I already had his entire birthday planned out in my head–with a different theme! I’m not used to my kids being able to articulate their desires like this :). So, I’ll admit–it took me a couple days to be inspired, but thanks to some help by Pinterest, I was fully hooked in no time. And it was SO MUCH FUN to do something that was initiated by Elliott!

    When I asked Elliott what was most important to him with the animal birthday party, he said, “I want REAL LIVE ANIMALS there!!!!”

    The hilarious part about that, is that Elliott is TERRIFIED of animals. Seriously. He’s always been utterly fascinated by them, but he doesn’t want to be anywhere near them. Selah has acquired the same fear. We’ve definitely had some breakthrough over the years, but both of them are still terrified.

    Going to the zoo itself just wasn’t practical this year, so we decided to have the zoo come to us! I pressed and prodded Elliott, reminding him that he’s often “a little” scared when he’s near animals, but he insisted that he wanted to see real live animals. When we got everything arranged and I told them we would have “REAL, LIVE animals” coming to our house, he was so excited. And when I asked him what type of animal he would really like to see, he boldly exclaimed, “A LION!!!!!” 🙂

    So…party preparations began a few weeks prior to his birthday, because the kids and I made all the decorations. Oh my, it was SO.MUCH.FUN preparing together! Elliott L-O-V-E-S crafting and so it was incredibly special for him (and Selah) to be an integral part of the decorating. It was so awesome spending a few weeks making animal crafts and for the kids to watch our home slowly transform into a little jungle…

    The first thing we made were my absolute FAVORITE decorations…I can’t get over how adorable these turned out. Both of the kids made each type of animal, so we had two of each kind–one big and one little. I just cut a Trader Joe’s bag into rectangles, and they stamped their hands right on each one! Then I added the details.

     

    We hung our animal handprints around the house amidst jungle vines…

    We printed off pictures of animals and found their heights, and put them up next to our growth chart so the kids could see which animal they were as tall as. Then, we decided to turn the growth chart into a tree! The kids cut out most of these leaves by themselves, fringes and all, and then put their thumbprints on them to make a few different types of bugs crawling through the trees!

    He’s as tall as a tiger!
    Can you see the bees, ladybugs and ants crawling on the tree leaves?

    I cut out this grass, but Elliott drew all of these little bugs! Aren’t they adorable!?!!

    Tis little pony bead alligator and elephant were cheapo crafts from Michaels. The kids LOVE pony beads, so these were a hit.
    The kids each made a couple of these monkeys that we kept finding hanging around the house!!! (See the little banana in his hand?!)
    They’re everywhere!
    They each made birds that could REALLY fly! 🙂
    We made suncatcher butterflies to hang from our sliding glass doors. I think they turned out beautifully!!
    After mixing together colors to make orange for the orange handprint animals, Elliott just painted the rest of the paper plate so the whole thing was orange. Then he asked if we could turn the orange plate into a lion. So we tuned it into a lion mask! Then I thought it would be fun if we gave everyone a chance to “be a lion” so we put the mask up on the mirror in the entryway and drew the rest of his body…
    Elliott LOVES penguins, so I thought it would be fun to turn everyone who went to the bathroom into a penguin…so Elliott and I did this on the bathroom mirror :).
    This is his goofy penguin face, hahaha!!

    Right after we decided to do an animal birthday party, I found Elliott in his room during quiet rest time making the coolest cage out of his straw builder things (or whatever they’re called, ha!) I said, “Hey! Should we make this into a zoo cage for all of your stuffed animals?!” He loved the idea, and he and Selah went to work the rest of the afternoon building a cage. Then, he painted this sign all by himself!!! (I did help him with apostrophe…)

    Elliott’s Zoo!!
    We loaded our mantle with some of our favorite animal books, Daddy’s monkey from when he was little, and a zebra 4!
    The day before the party, Elliott helped me make the cupcakes!

    The day of the party…

    We found wild animal tracks leading up to our front door!!!
    The party room is all ready! You can’t really read it, but the banner strung up says, “Happy 4th Birthday Elliott” out of various animal print papers.
    Elliott had a few super special guests fly in for his birthday! His cousin Micah, Uncle Kevin, and Grandma and Grandpa!

    All of his other friends arrived, and they started off by doing the thing that Elliott loves–crafting :). They each had a paper bag set out for them and they got to decorate it using animal stamps and stickers.

    Here’s everyone working hard on their crafts. I love this special moment that I caught between Elliott and Auntie Suz :).

    Then, they got to use they same supplies to decorate the covers for their very own binoculars. While the adults assembled binoculars, the kids got to make these cool snakes out of pipe cleaners and pony beads…again, one of Elliott’s FAVORITE crafting supplies.

    These are Elliott and Selah’s snakes. We talked about patterns and they had a great time creating these!

    And THEN it was time to hunt for animals using their binoculars! Elliott and Selah hid tiny plastic animals all over our living room and all the kids set out to hunt for them.

    Selah would look through her binoculars and say, “I SPY YOU!!!!!”
    Here’s the Mighty Quinn, on the hunt!!
    Look what Micah found!!!

    Then we went downstairs for a little “pin-the-tail-on-the-giraffe”…while half the kids were playing the game, the other half pretended to be monkeys and swung around on our gynamstics equipment in the basement!

    We let Elliott go first and he put the tail EXACTLY where it should go! Ha!! He looked at me afterwards like, “Um, why was that so hard?” Hahaha!!
    Our buddy Malachi!
    Sweet Fable!
    Dramatic Selah 🙂

    Then, it was time for lunch! Highlights included: pigs in a blanket, zebra popcorn, lion veggies, goldfish crackers, animal crackers, penguin gummies, mice-infested meat and cheese tray and meatballs :).

     

    After these wild party animals had their fill, there was a knock at the door…the REAL LIVE ANIMALS had arrived!!!

    The first one was a three-banded Armadillo!!
    You can tell how my kids felt about him!!
    Elliott even had the chance to feed it a live cricket! (It’s hard to see, but he’s holding long tweezers with a cricket pinched inside.) It’s all fun and games until said birthday boy accidentally lets the live cricket loose…
    It was all we could do to encourage him to take a picture with it :).

    Next up was a real live SNAKE!!

    Fable’s face says it all!!! HA!!
    And then, a TURTLE!
    And last, but not least, a Chinchilla!

    The kids all got the opportunity to touch each animal and it was such a fun experience!! Elliott was FASCINATED with the animals and couldn’t stop talking about them…he just still didn’t really want to be near them…as I suspected :).

    After the animals left, we had cake and opened presents!!

    Animals…behind pretzel cages.
    Elliott helped me decorate…and sprinkled some with “grass” and left others white so they would look like snow.
    Blowing out his four candles!!
    Everyone devoured their cupcakes, including this wild girl.
    Elliott’s friends were so generous and thoughtful and he got some super fun gifts!
    The party animals!
    The Moberg Pack!
    Such a fun day celebrating this wild 4 year old!!!
  • Love Comes From God

    There I was…on the bathroom floor…desperate for my son’s heart to change.

    We had just had 20 minutes that made me want to clench my fists and jump up and down and throw an honest-to-goodness 2 year old tantrum. I have been praying more than ever lately for my children to have wisdom (more on that one day soon), because the amount of foolishness that has been prevalent in our home by my dear 3 year old has been…what can I say…MIND-BOGGLING.

    Tonight, after pulling one of his routine foolish antics, I knelt down in front of him as he attempted to put his poops in the potty. Picture it: me, kneeling on our, ahem, “well-loved,” bathroom floor while my strained-face pooping 3 year old looked at me with red eyes. “Buddy…” I pleaded, tears in my own eyes. “Buddy…why, oh WHY, are you being so foolish?”

    We’ve just been over this particular scenario 41 billion trillion quadrillion times, and sometimes–I will be honest–I resort to this…kneeling on a bathroom floor and pleading with my pooping child. I’m still not sure if that’s better or worse than throwing a tantrum. I’ve been in Proverbs a lot lately, and you just can’t read Proverbs without begging God to save you and your children from the folly of foolishness. You can’t read Proverbs without begging God to soften your heart and your children’s hearts to love wisdom and not despise it. You can’t read Proverbs without begging God to keep you and your children from returning to your/their own vomit. Isn’t it true?

    We had just come from our church’s little community group, where at some point we ended up discussing how when children are asked why their parents love them, they usually respond with works-based answers, such as, “Because I’m good at art” or “Because I obey” or things of the sort. This, of course, is so opposed to the heart of the gospel, which relieves us from the burden of works-based righteousness. We are made righteous because of who Jesus is, and nothing of ourselves. I had Ephesians 2:8 (“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith, and this not from ourselves–it is a gift from God”) memorized as a child, but I did not truly understand the essence of this verse and the gospel until I was an adult. And it is still a battle each day to remember and understand and believe.

    Oh, how I long for my kids to know God’s love for them.

    Oh, oh, oh…oh, I long for my kids to understand that God’s love is unconditional. That we love because He first loved us. That we cannot attain His favor or love by our works, but only because of Jesus.

    I wrestle with this truth and understanding in my own life, but I fight hard each day to understand it because a.) my soul needs to understand it and b.) I can’t teach them what I don’t understand.

    Daily, by faith, one of the ways I try to teach them the little I do understand of His love is by showing them and telling them constantly how much I love them. Simply because they are mine. Simply because they are made in God’s image. Simply because they are eternal beings that matter. To me, and to God. Oh, how I long for my kids to understand love.

    So…back to community group (or “moony toop” as Selah calls it). As soon as I heard that question being discussed, I made a mental note to talk to the kids about works-based righteousness. Though we talk about the gospel frequently, I wanted to start directly teaching them about unconditional love. Just then, Brian leaned over and whispered, “We’ve got to ask our kids that question when we get home.” We were thinking the same thing. We had never thought to ask them such a question and we really had no idea how they would answer.

    Which brings us…home. Remember where we started? Me, kneeling on the bathroom floor?

    I put Selah to bed with such an anxiety in my spirit over the state of my son’s foolish heart. I was talking to Selah, telling her the gospel once again and reminding her why we can forgive our friend who had hurt her that night–only because of Jesus. Only because Jesus forgave us first. Only because Jesus forgave us while we were still sinners. And all in the back of my head I’m begging the Lord to change my son’s heart to be one who loves wisdom and not folly.

    I shut Selah’s door, and wanted to cry. But then I heard Brian’s voice…

    “Mommy…? Will you come here for a minute? Elliott has something to tell you…”

    I braced myself for the somewhat typical half-hearted apology from Elliott, and begged the Lord to give me the grace to truly forgive him and truly have hope for his soul. But instead…I got this:

    “My son, tell Mommy why Daddy and Mommy love you.”

    Elliott responded with a big smile on his face, “Because Jesus said, ‘Love one another.’ John 15:12.”

    I was a little confused…I figured Brian must have done a little lesson on the question we had wanted to ask him, in light of his disobedience. I thought it was sort of an odd way to teach Elliott the “answer” to that question, but I was just trying to go with it…until Brian relayed the whole story to me, with our sweet Elliott in his arms.

    “I asked Elliott why Mommy and Daddy love him, and he told me, ‘Because God tells us to.’ I asked if he could think of anything else…any other reasons why we love him. And he responded by saying, ‘Jesus said, ‘Love one another.’ John 15:12′.”

    Mind boggled to mind BLOWN.

    I broke down into a puddle of tears. I think Elliott’s starting to recognize my “good crying” (ha!) because he just beamed ear-to-ear with pride as my lip quivered and the tears flowed down my face.

    Our 3 year old son responded to the question of why we love him with a Scripture. With a Scripture about the fact that our love comes from God. And, for full disclosure here: I haven’t taught him that Scripture. It was a verse he memorized at preschool.

    And so without my help, or instruction, the Holy Spirit has been working in his heart on this conceptthat love comes from God. That we love because God tells us to. (Remember my revelation that God doesn’t tell us our parenting techniques will not come back void, but that THE WORD will not come back voidWhat a sweet and gentle reminder from the Lord on a night that my faith had dwindled…)

    Oh, there is still, obviously, so much to learn and so much to teach. But the fact that our son has grasped the idea that we love him because of God is the nugget of grace and hope I needed tonight.

    Fellow mamas, let’s teach the Word diligently and faithfully in  our homes, pray like crazy as we do, and trust that God will plant the truths in our children’s souls.

    Lord, I’m praying for my friends tonight, and I’m praying especially for all the mommies out there who, like me, struggle to understand that your love is unconditional. Teach us, Lord. Show us, Lord. Help us understand the gospel and give us the grace and perseverance to teach our children the gospel. Lord, help us understand your love so that we can love our kids unconditionally. Lord, strengthen our weary souls, as we love and pour out and teach and train tirelessly and endlessly…and teach us how to do it in your strength. Teach us how to pray. Amen.